External condomsandinternal condomsare two of the best ways to make sex safer.
Unfortunately, not everyone likes to use these forms of contraception.
Many people assume women are exclusively heterosexual and cisgender.
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They also assume it is always the partner with a penis who is reluctant touse condoms.
But, that’s not necessarily the case.
The avoidance of condoms in the United States is almost equal across the gender spectrum.
Reasons for Not Using Condoms
There are many reasons why some women avoid condoms.
Surveys show that the causes can vary based on age, race, and a woman’s relationship status.
Other factors include the stigmatization of condom use and misperceptions about a condom’s effectiveness.
Certain attitudes and beliefs affect a woman’s decision to use condoms.
If you have a latex allergy, try polyurethane or polyisoprene condoms instead.
Also, avoid products containing nonoxynol-9, which can be irritating.
To reduce the risk, avoid products containing nonoxynol-9, which can be irritating.
Use plenty of lubrication to reduce friction.
And, if you have a latex allergy, choose polyurethane or polyisoprene condoms instead.
A Word From Verywell
Sex with condoms should not be any less enjoyable than sex without.
Frequently Asked Questions
Technically, safer sex involvesbarrier protectionand a reduction in the number of sex partners.
This doesn’t mean you should abandon condoms as PrEP does not prevent other STIs.
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