For most of my life, my health was never something that was cause for concern.

They recommended that I make an appointment with my primary care doctor as soon as possible.

The first thing we talked about was family history.

Tonya O’Bryan

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Being diagnosed with high blood pressure is not a death sentence.

Its all dependent on what you do with the information that you have available.

She said that being diagnosed with high blood pressure is not a death sentence.

Its all dependent on what you do with the information that you have available.

Steps Toward a Heart-Healthy Life

I hate the word diet because it sounds temporary.

I had tried every fad diet out there, and nothing ever stuck.

I met with Mwangi and discussed my goals.

I really felt like he saw me, heard me, and met me where I was at.

There was a book club for his book that I joined.

I was able to apply the lessons from the book and do the workouts outlined in the book.

I felt comfortable with him.

He never judged me or made me feel uncomfortable about my ability or size.

When we started, I could barely do one push-up.

Now I can do about 30.

I consistently work out five days a week for 45 minutes a day.

We also talked about nutrition.

The more I ate healthy foods, the less I craved the less-healthy foods.

Portion size was also a big thing for me to learn.

I felt like I was being talked at rather than talked to.

There was a lack of communication skills and trust between the provider and myself.

Healthcare providers need to take the time to get to know their patients.

A patient isnt just some chart; they are a person.

I didnt get high blood pressure overnight.

I didnt gain weight overnight.

Im not fixing it overnight.

I still take two medications every day, but they are in lower doses.

I still take my blood pressure twice a day to monitor it.

My advice is to be patient with yourself.

I didnt get high blood pressure overnight.

I didnt gain weight overnight.

Im not fixing it overnight.

I know for sure that small changes over time create big rewards.

I never saw them coming.

One day I woke up and was like, Oh snap, Im moving better.

I dont hear the snap, crackle, and pop today.

It can feel like you have such a long way to go when starting at a deficiency.

You have to find wins and celebrate them.

Just keep going, and the results will come.

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